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Genre: Adult & Contemporary Romance / Romance

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From podcaster – and TikTok’s favourite romance reader – Brooke Averick, an honest, imperfect, laugh-out-loud funny love story about coming of age and coming apart – perfect for fans of Abby Jimenez, Curtis Sittenfeld and Emily Henry.

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Phoebe Berman’s Guide to Losing Her Virginity In 30 Days: A Checklist

⭐ Redownload Hinge
⭐ Pet a dog with a cute owner
⭐ Find the cutest guy on the plane to help with my luggage
⭐ Identify a suitable target behind the wheel of a car, rear end him, and get his number
⭐ Advertise myself on Craigslist

All Phoebe Berman has ever wanted is a whirlwind romance. And yet, she keeps getting in her own way. She has no idea what has caused her long and messy history of failed dating attempts – the panic attacks, cold sweats and projectile vomiting.

But she does know two things:
1. She’s going to be thirty in a month.
2. She’s still a virgin. This, though, she’s determined to change.

Armed with a romance-novel-inspired to-do list, Phoebe’s giving herself thirty days to lose her virginity. No backing out this time.

She’s even got some promising options lined up: there’s charming new fellow teacher Finn; long-distance texting pen pal Matthew; and, of course, dreamy Jonathan, her long-time best friend and roommate.

With the clock ticking and a checklist as chaotic as her inner monologue, if Phoebe Berman wants to lose it, she might just have to find herself first.

Reviews

A ridiculously charming debut filled with humor and sincerity. This one is for all of us over-thinkers and hopeless romantics who want relatable characters and grounded story telling. Readers will be rooting for Phoebe every step of the way.
Hannah Bonam-Young
Witty, vulnerable, and emotionally astute, Phoebe Berman's Gonna Lose It had me completely charmed from the first page
Annabel Monaghan
Heartfelt and funny. This has everything romantic comedies need: projectile vomiting, checklists, and an easy-to-root-for, endearing protagonist. A love story for the ages - or at least for the anxious
Emily Austin
Phoebe Berman's Gonna Lose It is witty, relatable, and unflinchingly honest - an absolutely stunning story about love, family, intimacy, and the space where they overlap. I laughed (a lot), I cried (more than expected), I swooned (the perfect amount), and I looked into the metaphorical camera, wondering if this book was actually about me. Brooke Averick's debut is truly effervescent
Lyla Sage